Top 3 Relationship Compatibility Questions Answered
Posted on April 20, 2008 | 3 Comments
I’ve sent an email to people in the relationship compatibility report mailing list, asking about their relationship compatibility difficulties and questions in mind. I have had a lot or responses to the email , so I decided to answer the 3 of the most frequent questions in this article. Here you go.
1) How to be sure my partner really loves me?
Ok. I’ll try to be very diplomatic here. Let’s put it that way – if you love someone what would you do to show that? How would you make it obvious for your partner to notice that you really feel in love toward him or her?
Basically – you try to show your affection toward that person, right? You show interest in what that person says, maybe even admire him or her in something and certainly sympathize in whatever happens to that person. Your eyes glisten when looking at the other person, you seem quite enthusiastic about spending time together with the guy or girl.
Do you feel that kind of affection from your partner? Interest in you? Sympathy? Check it out.
2) How to increase the affection between us?
Real affection basically depends on really agreeing all the way up to admiring the other person the way he or she looks and the things he or she talks about. So – try to look good and ALSO try to be more interesting to your partner. Make notes what your partner likes in the way you look and enhance it and on the contrary make your efforts to see what he or she rather not see in you and do some step toward not having it on you.
I am not talking about becoming obsessed on being exactly what other people think you should be, because there lies unhappiness and hard time getting other people to like you. No, I’m talking about having your time together as smooth and enjoyable to both of you as possible.
And I certainly suggest you give compliments to things you like about your partner and to the contrary suggest some small improvements, but very gently and not demanding, like “You know, that tie would look so great on you, why wouldn’t you put it on?”
I suggest you read my free report to understand more about being interesting.
3) The hardest thing about keeping a relationship alive is not to get angry on your partner.
Well, that’s a hard one, I would say. According to the knowledge I gained, a person can react on things which look like certain bad things, that happened to him in the past. And those reactions can happen without him or her really being in control of it.
One good thing about it – the more rested we are and the better our mood is, the less is the possibility that such outbursts can happen to us. So my advice – rest more and do your best to keep you mood in good shape. I’ll give some good advice on this in my future articles.
I warmly recommend that you read the book from Michael Webb 50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships to really get a hand on creating and most importantly keeping your relationship alive so that fights don’t occur and life is smooth and enjoyable together.
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i have a question no a comment.I have been dating a man the last six months i love him and he loves me too. we are all above 40 years. we are all divorced. he says he does not want to get married now neither do i but he wants us to be lovers. he told me that he has a girlfriend but he is not ready to marry her. he says we should start spending nights together in hotels and he is willing to meet half of the expenses. am i safe to continue with him?
In such situations I first of all advice to trust your heart and what you really feel should be done here. Monica, I feel that you have the answer but it sometimes requires courage to look at it.
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