Is Your Boyfriend Cheating?

Posted on June 11, 2010 | Leave a Comment

Possibly you have wondered that your boyfriend may be cheating on you, but you are not exactly sure why you are thinking this. His behavior is different. Is it in your head, or is he really straying? There are some telltale signs that will point you in the right direction. Ask yourself the next few questions:

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1.    Has he started seeing less of you?  If he is postponing evenings out frequently, he may be with someone else.

2.    Does he act the same when you are alone together?  If he doesn’t have the same degree of tactility and treats you differently, that could be a sign there is another woman.

3.    This can also be true of how he acts when you are out in public, or if he avoids going out in public with you to start with.

4.    Does he refuse to tell you who he is speaking to on the phone? Hiding the phone from you or turning it off when you are around are possible signs of this. If he takes phone calls near you, notice how he speaks. If he is being evasive  with the woman on the other end of the line, he may be hiding from you both!

5.    Does he criticize you more than he did? This can be to justify the fact that he is two timing you or because he has newfound interests in a new woman that he is temporarily fascinated with.

6.    Has he sprung to the defense of other adulterers?If he defends these guys where previously he never did, he may be assuaging his guilt.

7.    Lately, has he bought you a new scent to wear? Sometimes the only way a guy feels safe from getting found with the wrong scent on him is when he makes it your scent, too!

8.    Is he attempting to clean himself up?Is he paying closer attention to shaving, or maybe buying aftershave. It may be that he is styling to please her preferences and not yours.

9.    has personal contact different with you both?It may go in one of two ways. Possibly he will be up for all sorts of things that you wouldn’t have previously expected, or maybe he is finding excuses not to go near you you at all.

10.    Does he have any new personal items that he possibly wouldn’t have bought for himself? A new watch could be a giveaway sign of a present from a mistress. Some men are very lax when it comes to buying themselves new jewelry, so if your man is one of these and he suddenly starts wearing new stuff, it could be a sign.

11.    Is he suddenly wearing fresh, spruced boxers? No matter what kind of a slouch he ordinarily is, he is probably going to clean up his act if he’s embarking on a tryst.

You know your own man and relationship better than anyone else, and if you think there are clear signs of change, then there probably is something to worry about, although it is best not to get too carried away. Significant differences in style, grooming, personal effects and behavior are often an indication of an affair. Make sure before you accuse or you may be mistaken and you’ll never have the opportunity to make the same mistake again!

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