Flirting Body Language

Posted on June 21, 2010 | Leave a Comment

Cheesy pick-up lines are out, and aggressive flirting body language is in. The fact is, your body language is more powerful than anything you might say to a woman. Here are some reasons why this seduction tool is so powerful. 
First, you can flirt with a woman from across the room just by showing her you’re interested. Second, a woman will feel more comfortable talking to a guy who’s already showing signs of being interested (women hate rejection, too!). 
So what flirting body language signals can you send out to women so they can tell at once that you’re a single guy who’s out to interact and have fun? Here are three examples. 

 

1. Be Open to Greetings and Smiles. 
If you’ve seen a guy huddled all by himself inside a bar teeming with beautiful ladies in need of someone to flirt with, what is the first thing that comes to mind? You’d think that this guy doesn’t want to interact, and is probably in the process of drowning his sorrows by drinking. Needless to say, not a single female will approach him. You have to face the crowd even if you’re alone. 
Check out the design of the place (including the women milling around). Make eye contact with women who are checking you out in return. Say hello and smile when a woman passes by. Maintaining an ‘open’ body language will increase the likelihood that you’re going to meet a woman you can date later. 

 

2. Wink.
There’s a proper way of winking that won’t tag you as a creep. It’s actually quite simple but guys miss this entirely. Smile broadly before you wink. Smiling takes the edge off your unprecedented eye play because it serves as a greeting. 
This is particularly helpful if the woman is positionally inaccessible (like when she’s seated with her friends and you’re standing by the bar). Smiling and winking will effectively put you on her to-talk-to list for the night (if she doesn’t come right over and talk to you immediately!). 

 

3. Tilt your head when she says something interesting. 
Some men have faces that really don’t show much expression. If you’re one of these men who were born with a ‘perennial poker face’, you can express your interest by tilting your head towards her.
All these body language cues help when you want to establish rapport with women.

 

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