What About Relationship Compatibility by Names

Hi! I know you are looking for some kind of numerology or astrology test which takes two names and can say if you are RIGHT for dating that guy of girl or WRONG and nothing would be good in it for you.
Well, maybe that’s correct and maybe not. I am not going to judge or […]

Looking For Free Online Compatibility Tests?

Hello! In this post I want to provide you with the easiest way to test your love compatibility by using three simple questions. Please, read each question with short explanation and see how you can apply it on yourself and your partner to really understand if you are truly compatible.
1. Do you argue often when […]

Resolved Question: 4 year relationship stands the test of times and scares me?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for four years. We are complete opposites…which has brought both enrichment and frustration to each others’ lives. We have different religions, cultural backgrounds, personality types, and professions. The few things we share are an undeniable chemistry for one another and a desire to make this world a better place. At least once a year we’ve questioned and doubted our compatibility. This has led to arguments, resentment, but often times deeper understanding (albeit with scars).
We’ve both come to the realization that we need to love each other for who we are, and not expect one another to change (easier said than done). But we have found some issues we can actively work on. For her, she’s trying to curb her anger, and to think more before she explodes all over me. In addition, she’s beginning to understand that I need space and alone-time on a regular basis–for my work, not because I don’t care about her. As for me, I’m trying to be more inclusive, making efforts to have her meet and hang with all of my family and friends, because I have a tendency to compartmentalize my relationships.

But the clock is ticking, according to her. She wants to marry. And after four years, she’s says I should be ready for marriage. But our timelines are off. I don’t feel ready. I’m open to moving-in together first, but she says her parents wouldn’t allow that. I love her, but I have doubts still. I don’t know if our love is long-lasting, healthy, or if our differences will defeat and pull us apart. I can envision a future together, but I see two paths: one is full of love and shared experience, and the other is full of heart-ache, regret, and fighting. I want us to have fulfilling lives, but I’m afraid we’ll compromise too much for each other. I feel confused and scared, and that’s not the way I want to feel about my loved one. I don’t want to be pressured into marriage. When I express this, she wonders what’s wrong with her or why she isn’t good enough
Do I have a fear of commitment? Is our relationship healthy? Why is love such hard work? How do you know if your love is for life? I want to feel uplifted by the thought of spending the rest of my life with her, instead I feel closed in and worried.

Any advice is most appreciated.

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